Weddings, you just have to love them! Then again, it's hard not to love some of the weddings that you attend for many reasons. I didn't have the "average" wedding that everyone dreams of. I had mine by the lake, and you were allowed to wear whatever you wanted. Jeans were just fine. Of course, I did wear a dress, but not the typical wedding dress. We played music, but not the typical slow music. We had a blast and it was memorable, which is what truly counts. I never really liked the whole wedding scene. I am going to give you 8 things people hate about weddings.
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8. The Huge Crowd They do Not Know
Wow, when you go to a wedding, there are many people that you don't know. Some people do not like this. Navigating a massive guest list can feel overwhelming, especially if you prefer intimate gatherings. For more on smaller celebrations, check out our guide to planning a small, intimate wedding.
7. How Much They Cost
Some people go all out for their wedding and I have never understood it. It's a waste of money, really, because you can have a great wedding without spending so much money. Trust me, I did. Some of the prices on those weddings are horrible! In fact, the average cost of a wedding continues to rise every year, making budget-friendly options even more appealing.
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6. Bridesmaid Dresses
Those puffy looking dresses: yes, I hate them too. I didn't have any bridesmaid dresses at my wedding. It wasn't needed in my book, as everyone can be comfortable. If you are struggling with this, consider looking into modern bridesmaid dress trends that focus on wearability and style. If you want to know about other uncomfortable aspects, see point 5 below.
5 Bad Seating
Eeek, many people hate the bad seating. Those wooden or metal chairs and pews are definitely not comfortable to sit in. I know. Providing cozy seating arrangements can make a huge difference for your guests' experience.
4. Passing out
I didn't pass out during my wedding nor did my husband, but I have seen some weddings where someone did pass out. Don't you think that is horrible? Standing up at the altar one minute, then resting on the floor in front of a group of people the next minute. Proper hydration and avoiding locked knees are key!
3. The Chicken Dance
Oh goodness, how many times have I seen the chicken dance at a wedding? I'm so glad it was not at my wedding! Absolutely not, no way. Creating a fun wedding reception playlist can easily prevent these clichéd dance floor moments.
2. The Ring Guy Losing the Ring
Oh yes, it never fails. The ring guy goes off and loses a ring. Sigh. I have heard many stories of this. It is a stressful moment that could easily be avoided by giving the actual rings to the best man at the very last second.
1. The Monster Bride
Yes, the root of it all: the monster! Yes, we love her and some may even want to be her, but goodness, since when does being a bride give you the right to get everything you want to get? Then, if you don't get it, what gives you the right to break down and have a big tantrum? Two-year-olds sometimes act better than some brides. Sorry to offend you and I know if I offended you and you were a "temper tantrum bride," you are definitely going to comment on this one. It's just that, even during my wedding, I was not a "me, me, me" type of person.
There you have 8 things people hate about weddings. I know weddings can still be really cool and memorable, but some people can't stand the typical ones held inside churches. Instead of a traditional event, you could always try one of these alternatives:
- A relaxed backyard gathering
- A scenic destination elopement
- A quick and easy courthouse ceremony
So, what do you not like about weddings?
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