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7. You Always Feel like You Are Competing with Her...

When you were a little girl it was fun to compete with your sister to see who could drink their chocolate milk faster, run to the stop sign faster, or even who could get the attention of more boys at school! But now that you are both adults you are tired of competing with her to see who will get married first, who will have a baby first, or who has the better job. If you have this kind of relationship with your sister or a friend, this is not the kind of bridesmaid you want standing up with you on your wedding day.

I am not trying to bash on your relative or friend here, we all have people like this in our lives. But we just need to realize that it's okay to say no to these people when they ask to be in our wedding or when your mother tells you that your cousin should be a bridesmaid. If you know she has one of these signs of a bad bridesmaid, than think twice about asking her. You may hurt her feelings at first when you don't ask or when you tell her she's invited but won't be a bridesmaid, but if she loves you she will understand.

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